well hello again.
jason is being a bitch and nagging me to write him an article for weeks.he's a prick;
but for your information; here's another article.

the attractive male.

every single one of you have the potential to become the most interesting person ever. its all about self belief and the desire and passsion to do so.

confidence. ask any girl what trait she desires most in a guy and guess what she'll answer.ask sean connery; the first bond, one of the most charming men around; his answer? "confidence, confidence"what exactly is this confidence?

its the ability to do things without asking for approval, to dare to

take the lead,to say no. it applies in all aspects of our lives, not just dealing with women.
self-esteem. in order for someone to truly love you, you need to love yourself first. even cocky funny, a la mister jason communicates that he loves himself more than he loves her, and if she doesnt like it, its her loss. love yourself; eat healthy,workout, get a life, read, enjoy yourself. its this joie de vivre, joy of life that people can pick up on and they enjoy it.

respect. its all about respect. if you do not respect others, you will not go far. if you do not respect yourself, then youwont get anywhere. love yourself and love others. do not be afraid of your desires. the nice guy represses his desires thinkingthat he'll be liked if he's nice. the bad boy imposes himself on others and takes what he wants without giving back. guess whogets more girls? the nice guy disrespects himself, the bad boy disrespects others; neither is truly successful. respect yourselfenough to express your desires and not be afraid of them, and respect others enough to give them enough space and add value totheir life.
value.

every single person is selfish. they love you only if you add value to their life. be interesting, be willing to share,be willing to accept when a person shares. learn to give constructive criticism. no one likes being told they suck. complimentsare fine, when earned. how'd you have enough value to add to others? simple, but tough. get a life; go out, meet new people, getnew experiences, enrich yourself. focus on improving your life and others will want to be part of it.

a man who loves women, is loved by women. man and women are yin and yang. each needs each other to complement each other to form a whole. there is a bit of the other within each person. embrace that and embrace the fact that each gender needs the otherand believe in that. appreciate every woman, point out what you find unique and special in her, but point out her flaws as well and works with her to improve them.

have many female friends. learn from them, talk to them without expecting anything.they willteach you a lot.
spontaneous. be spontaneous, act on your desires. believe in what you're doing, and do it.

call her, just do it. don't care if some stupid dating guide says call her after three days. go for a walk at night. tell her to meet you and dont tell her whatyou're gonna do. bring her on an emotional rollercoaster. dare to go against the norm. hate the boring, love the mysterious.don't bring her to a movie, bring her to ikea and knock her about with the dragon soft toy.

we are all inherently different. the norm is comfortable and we allow ourselves to be moulded into that because its comfortable,and no one will reject us. accept what is different and allow it to show. this is what women mean when they say "just be yourself"different is attractive. be different, be yourself,
-jingwen